give each pic a word, then may see the new connection.
feeling is the most important thing.
choose, first you have to choose, but the standard is not important. Maybe learning choose for years.
forget the work, just do it.
don't expect to do all the things good at the beginning.
there is no wrong way, but you choose it.
choose one thing for a while than another thing. after some time u can figure out partely what u want.
the relationship is about the feeling not like the comic book.